11.05.2008

The Sack Lunches

I put my carry-on in the luggage compartment and sat down in my assigned seat. It was going to be a long flight. "I'm glad I have a good book to read. Perhaps I will get a short nap," I thought.

Just before take-off, a line of soldiers came down the aisle and filled all the vacant seats, totally surrounding me. I decided to start a conversation. "Where are you headed?" I asked the soldier seated nearest to me.

"Chicago - to Great Lakes Base. We'll be there for two weeks for special training, and then we're being deployed to Iraq "

After flying for about an hour, an announcement was made that sack lunches were available for five dollars. It would be several hours before we reached Chicago, and I quickly decided a lunch would help pass the time.

As I reached for my wallet, I overheard soldier ask his buddy if he planned to buy lunch. "No, that seems like a lot of money for just a sack lunch. Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks. I'll wait till we get to Chicago " His friend agreed.

I looked around at the other soldiers. None were buying lunch. I walked to the back of the plane and handed the flight attendant a fifty dollar bill. "Take a lunch to all those soldiers." She grabbed my arms and squeezed tightly. Her eyes wet with tears, she thanked me. "My son was a soldier in Iraq; it's almost like you are doing it for him."

Picking up ten sacks, she headed up the aisle to where the soldiers were seated. She stopped at my seat and asked, "Which do you like best - beef or chicken?"

"Chicken," I replied, wondering why she asked. She turned and went to the front of plane, returning a minute later with a dinner plate from first class. "This is your thanks."

After we finished eating, I went again to the back of the plane, heading for the rest room. A man stopped me. "I saw what you did. I want to be part of it. Here, take this." He handed me twenty-five dollars.

Soon after I returned to my seat, I saw the Flight Captain coming down the aisle, looking at the aisle numbers as he walked, I hoped he was not looking for me, but noticed he was looking at the numbers only on my side of the plane. When he got to my row he stopped, smiled, held out his hand, an said, "I want to shake your hand."
Quickly unfastening my seatbelt I stood and took the Captain's hand. With a booming voice he said, "I was a soldier and I was a military pilot. Once, someone bought me a lunch. It was an act of kindness I never forgot." I was embarrassed when applause was heard from all of the passengers.

Later I walked to the front of the plane so I could stretch my legs. A man who was seated about six rows in front of me reached out his hand, wanting to shake mine. He left another twenty-five dollars in my palm.

When we landed in Chicago I gathered my belongings and started to deplane. Waiting just inside the airplane door was a man who stopped me, put something in my shirt pocket, turned, and walked away without saying a word. Another twenty-five dollars!
Upon entering the terminal, I saw the soldiers gathering for their trip to the base. I walked over to them and handed them seventy-five dollars. "It will take you some time to reach the base. It will be about time for a sandwich. God Bless You."

Ten young men left that flight feeling the love and respect of their fellow travelers. As I walked briskly to my car, I whispered a prayer for their safe return. These soldiers were giving their all for our country. I could only give them a couple of meals.
It seemed so little...

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A veteran is someone who, at one point in his or her life wrote a blank check made payable to: "The United States of America " for an amount of "up to and including his or her own life.
"THAT IS HONOR, and as sad as it may seem, there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it!"

Sometimes just acknowledgement is enough to make a service person feel like what they are doing is totally worth it...and helps to pull them through the tough times!

If you know a vet or someone still currently serving and you truly appreciate the freedom we enjoy in our country...let them know how you feel and thank them for their selfless sacrifice. It has more impact than you can ever imagine!

11.04.2008

Where is your key? 鑰匙在那裡

No matter where we are, either environment, people, events, or things sometimes make our emotions fluctuate, But don't forget! Don't get upset too long by one sentence uttered by another person.

Where is your key?

A famous writer, Sydney Harries, and his friend went to buy newspapers from a newspaper stand, His friend politely said thanks to the seller, But the seller only responded with a cold face, not saying a word. 'This fellow has a very bad attitude, hasn't he?' Harries asked as they continued to walk forward.

'He is like this every evening', the friend replied. So why are you still so polite to him? Harries asked. 'Why should I allow him to determine my own behaviour?' replied his friend. 'A mature person will always hold on to his own Key of Happiness, he does not depend on others to make him happy, instead he is able to give happiness and blessings to others. Every man has a 'Key of Happiness' in his own heart, but has often unconsciously given that key to be under others' control.

A lady complained: 'I live very unhappily, because my husband often has to be out of town for his job', she has put her key of happiness to her husband's hands.

A Mom said: 'My disobedient child makes me very mad', she has put her key to her child's hands.

A man may say: 'My boss does not appreciate me, thus I feel so depressed', he has put his key of happiness to the hands of his boss.

The mother-in-law said: 'My daughter-in-law does not practice filial piety to me, I really have a bad life!'

The young man came out from a stationery shop, saying: 'That shop owner has a very bad attitude, I feel so mad'.

All these people have made th same decision, and that is to allow other people to control their own emotions.

When we allow others to control our emotions, we will feel we are the victim, and are helpless to face our own situations, complaints and anger would be our only choice. We begin to blame others, and convey the following message:

'All the pain that I am suffering is created by you, you should be responsible for all my pains.' At that time, we give a very heavy responsibility to those around us, and demand them to make us happy.

It seems we admit that we have no way to take control of ourselves, and thus pitifully can only allow others to control us. This person would make others run away from him, or to be afraid of him. But a mature person would hold on to his own Key of Happiness, he does not expect others to make him happy, on the contrary, he is able to give happiness and blessings to others, His emotions are stable, he is responsible for his own life, it is an enjoyment, a freedom from pressures, to be together with him. Where is your key? In others' hands? Make haste to get it back!

The opposite of love is not hate, but is indifference and no caring. Love changes everything. No matter whether life is sweet or bitter.


這篇文章希望你能體會到它的涵意。
其實我們身處的地方,不論是環境,人,事,物都很容易影響我們的情緒起伏,可是千萬別忘了!不要因為他人的一句話,而在意太久哦!

鑰匙在那裡

從箸名專欄作家哈理斯(Sydney Harries)和朋友在報攤上買報紙,那朋友禮貌地對報販說了聲謝謝,但報攤卻冷口冷臉,沒發一言。'這傢伙態度很差,是不是?'他們繼續前行時,哈理斯問道。

'他每天晚上都是這樣的。'朋友說。

'那麼你為什麼還是對他那麼客氣?'哈理斯問他。朋友答道:'為什麼我要讓他決定我的行為?'一個成熟的人握住自己的快樂鑰匙,他不期待別人使他快樂,反而能將快樂與幸福帶給別人。每人心中都有把'快樂的鑰匙',
但我們卻常在不知不覺中把它交給別人掌管。 

一位女士抱怨道:'我活得很不快樂,因為先生常出差不在家。' 他把快樂的鑰匙放在先生手裡。

一位媽媽說:'我的孩子不聽話,叫我很生氣!' 她把鑰匙交在孩子手裡。

男人可能說:'上司不賞識我,所以我情緒低落。' 這把快樂鑰匙又被塞在老闆手裡。

婆婆說;'我的媳婦不孝順,我真命苦!'

年輕人從文具店走出來說:'那位老闆服務態度惡劣,把我氣炸了!'

這些人都做了相同的決定,就是讓別人來控制他的心情。當我們容許別人掌握我們的情緒時,我們便覺得自己是受害者,對現況無能為力,抱怨與忿怒成為我們唯一的選擇。我們開始怪罪他人,並且傳達一個訊息:

'我這樣痛苦,都是你造成的,你要為我的痛苦負責!'此時我們就把一重大的責任托給週圍的人,即要求他們使我們快樂。我們似乎承認自己無法掌握自己,只能可憐的任人擺佈。這樣的人使別人不喜歡親近,甚至望而生畏。但一個成熟的人握住自己快樂的鑰匙,他不期待別人使他快樂,反而能將快樂與幸福帶給別人。他的情緒穩定,為自己負責,和他在一起是種享受,而不是壓力。

你的鑰匙在那裡?在別人手裡嗎?快去把它拿回來吧!愛的反面不是仇恨,而是漠視而不關心。不管人生是甚麼味道甜的吃、苦也吃

Wise words for an election year

During this election year let's be reminded of these words:

* You cannot help the poor, by destroying the rich.

* You cannot strengthen the weak, by weakening the strong.

* You cannot bring about prosperity, by discouraging thrift.

* You cannot lift the wage earner up, by pulling the wage payer down.

* You cannot further the brotherhood of man, by inciting class hatred.

* You cannot build character and courage, by taking away men's initiative and independence.

* You cannot help men permanently, by doing for them what they could and should, do for themselves .

Do you recognize the author?
It was Abraham Lincoln

Very, very wise words, written years ago and we still don't get it... Why do MOST People think the Government owes them a living?